I have recently been to my brother’s marriage......and in
all the chaos i noticed the working of the great institution of marriage in
binding another great institution of the Indian culture-the family. It is very
often said that marriage is the unison of two souls.....marriage is also about
getting together of two separate families. However, i would like to point out
about how marriage brings one “long-lost” family together. My parents flew from
lucknow.....my cousin brother flew from haridwar......my cousin sister came
from Raipur......it was like a family reunion. How often do we get to see all
this in the age of nuclear family?? Having brought up in a nuclear family i
witnessed as to why the joint families were so preferred back then. It’s fun
24x7!!! To be around your bros, sis, parents, uncles, aunts, siblings all at
once. Yes, there are many more things living in a joint family on a regular
basis......there is lack of privacy, not enough personal space etc etc. With times
we all have evolved as independent beings....maybe that’s why we prefer nuclear
family unlike our previous generations. Whatever it is, being a part of a joint
family once in a while is really fun.......enjoyed to the hilt.....:)
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